If you were at my 11/11 'Become World Famous' activation or watched it back on the replay, you will have heard me pledge that I’m going to show up as THE REAL ME from now on. I acknowledged a communication breakdown on my behalf for subbing out my message previously to others (copywriters etc) when I AM THE ONE WHO IS HERE TO BE THE MESSENGER.
The reason I did that was for all the normal reasons that most influencers, messengers, entrepreneurs & leaders do:
Overwhelm with wondering how to get my message out across all the platforms I’d built
An underlying fear and insecurity around ‘what is my true message? Which was playing out
AND in addition to that, STILL feeling somewhat muted by conditioning in the spiritual community that you have to speak and act in a certain way in order to be ‘spiritual’.
So what I have to say to you today I know is gonna bring up triggers and possibly outrage for some. And that’s okay with me, because the truth of who I am right now is ALWAYS okay with me. (You can find the unsubscribe button at the end of this email).
Others of you are going to shout A-FUCKING-MEN (or possibly “SO IT IS”???!!!) Because someone has actually VOICED what you have been thinking for so long.
Whatever the case, as the messenger, my job is simply to allow the message to come through. In it’s raw, unadulterated sense.
So here we go:
Today I shared a post on social media talking about how mine and Aeythen’s morning had gone. It went like this:
So what I want to add to this post, now that I’ve had my shower and received a further insights and guidance, is why I actually feel generally (seriously) repelled towards joining or being part of any Goddess Groups I see in the spiritual community.
Now I’m not dissing Goddess work in general. I think Goddess work CAN be really rewarding and empowering. I’ve done some of my own off my own back and have benefited from it.
But what I don’t like is when I see carbon copies of ‘mini me’s’ (meaning a specific Goddess) walking around rainbow towns looking like zombies, cult like, expressionless, without uniqueness and looking seriously disempowered.
I also have a problem with women (and men) in general who think that BEING FEMININE and BEING IN FLOW looks like being a softly spoken girly girl woman - suppressed, sitting around all day painting her nails, brushing her hair and being fed grapes.
And what is it with women who feel they need to spend a frigging fortune (or waste a lot of time) talking to their womb!!! TRYING to become society's version OR the new age version of what and who the TRUE Goddess is!!
Why do we have to follow a certain Goddess for a Luna month or cycle in order to feel more in our OWN feminine power???
Aren’t we all at times, different faces of the Goddess/God and often times a mixture of both??
Not because we are following a system, a season or a cycle but just because THAT’S HOW WE BLOODY WELL FEEL IN THE MOMENT.
It’s bullshit.
THIS Goddess, does not enjoy being still ALL the time and JUST setting bloody intentions.
THIS Goddess LOVES and gets fuelled up by being in the thick of it. Being on my A Game, doing my soul hustle, working HARD on my craft, releasing my creativity and smashing down internal and external barriers!
THIS Goddess likes to be free to express herself, AS HERSELF, IN ANY GIVEN MOMENT and not be a carbon copy of any other Goddesses, Gods or try to blend, mould, flex and mute herself to make herself more acceptable to others - ESPECIALLY to those in our overly feminine polarised spiritual community!!!!!
Because I think it’s fucking brutal. Toxic as fuck. It takes us MORE away from loving ourselves, accepting ourselves and BEING ourselves when we are trying to BE someone we are not.
We have BOTH energies inside of all of us. The masculine and the feminine. During some (internal) cycles we feel more one than the other. In some relationships one polarity may be more evident at times that the other.
But to say that to be feminine, you have to talk softly all the time, be meek and mild and not be FULLY in your power, that you can't be a ridiculously successful business woman, incredible at sports, amazingly organised and working HARD to fulfil your greatest destiny, is just downright diminishing.
And the hilarious thing is that I know this IS what a lot of Goddess groups try to get across. But in my experience in observing them, it rarely does. Because the female leaders often have a wound which exists which whispers to them in patriarchal tones that they “need to be more feminine” which roughly translates as: meek and mild and subservient as fuck.
We are all different and unique expressions of the God AND Goddess. It’s as simple as that. What comes forth from within us is different depending on the day, the minute the week and a whole load of other stuff in the quantum atmosphere.
And how do I know this? My own journey YES and also the Creation Codes.
It’s the coding of the 10-1 and the 13-4. Both of which I have in my profile which is why this has been such a journey and healing for me.
The androgynous energies of the divine. The male/female interplay and balance.
This for me has been one of the many blessings on my path of becoming a student and Teacher of the Creation Codes.
Learning how YOU are divinely coded and then ACCEPTING that is one of the most liberating healing things you can do for yourself and gift to others.
If you are feeling called to gift yourself this, then I invite you to my epic "The Code of the Oracle Certification Training"
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From my inner God & Goddess to yours:
You are perfect. Exactly as you are.
Ariella xx
P.S. How GOOD does being authentically YOU feel????!!!!