This is a story of how I opened myself to love. A greater expansion of love has come to me this year and also just this weekend past. My hope is that by sharing this it helps to open up and transform something inside of you too.
As I shared in my private Facebook Group where I share my Soul with you on a daily basis, then you’ll know that I’ve been away for a special forest getaway - just me and my twin flame Aeythen. It was 4 days and 3 nights of deep connection, intimacy, heart sharing, planning, re-coding and re-calibrating our relationship blueprint.
We returned from our forest holiday with so much renewed energy, passion, excitement and TRUST in our love for each other plus the journey we are on, as Souls who have returned here to be together in this lifetime, supporting each other’s mission and higher purpose for being here.
I want to share with you a summary of the transformational process we went through in order to restore balance and harmony in our relationship and what I have had to personally alchemise inside of me so I could make myself available to love.
The process is roughly the same that I apply to all other areas of my life, including how I consistently create multiple 5 & 6 figure months in my business (every month) and 7 figure quantum leap years.
First I want to share with you the key shift in mindset I’ve had over the last few years (and a far deeper immersion this year) which has allowed myself to be able to receive this love.
You see, this year has really been about redefining my relationship with SUCCESS.
As part of my own rebirthing process that I have been sharing with you, my focus (and mission) is now all about QUANTUM SUCCESS. Yep, that’s success in ALL areas of my life AND my clients lives, across all layers of Multi-D reality.
Because the thing is that you can have lots of money and be doing good in your business, but when other areas of your life are out of whack it affects EVERY layer of your life, your happiness (and yes, it puts a dam cap on your money too!!).
So now, if my emotional life, my relationships, health, lifestyle, spirituality and character are not functioning at the same level of success as my purpose and money, then this no longer constitutes ‘success’ for me.
Because everything is connected. You can’t enjoy life fully when just one or two aspects of your life are doing well, ALL of you gets to be a success, at every level!
So back to me and Aeythen -
It wasn’t that we ever fell out of love, far from it, our love for each other has always been stable, but when you are here in sacred union and you are both going through BIG changes in your own evolutionary journeys it can’t half bring a lot of crap to the surface to be looked at, transformed and healed!!
To be real - Aeythen and I have certainly had our challenges - and not just this year either. After our 1 year honeymoon period ended, it was then revealed to us what was our REAL work would entail.
And after nearly 8 years together journeying through life and having some off the charts adventures, we’re STILL not one of those couples that look like we’ve got it all sewed up and made!
And that’s why I think our love story is authentic and inspiring… because despite the palpable love that we share, it hasn’t always flowed and been easy. We’ve had to work really hard on ourselves, transforming our patterns and learning so much about what our relationship really needs in order for it to thrive.
From my side, I can project a whole load of emotional stress/mess at Aeythen. To bring it back to the blueprint, that’ll be my 17-8’s, 13-4 and 9’s working. And yep, this is after 15 years solid working seriously hard on myself! Imagine what my relationships were like before!
As a 13-4 in Soul Destiny who is REMEMBERING HERSELF TO BE LOVE, I created a whole load of dense illusions for myself when I was growing up, not because my parents didn’t love me, for they surely did, but there was unintentional wounding that I experienced at home & in other relationships which created a feeling of abandonment, insecurity and shame for not ‘being enough’.
This has led me at times, to be unavailable to my own emotions (8’s), unavailable to love (13-4) and unable to express how I feel from a place of vulnerability and love (17-8) which is partly why I am sharing this so openly with you now.
If we aren’t responsible and available to break the patterns, then the patterns will break us.
I’ll leave it to Aeythen to tell his side, but it’s a similar theme of ‘not good enough’ which plays out differently for him.
Maybe you yourself can relate…
Imagine all of us, Gods and Goddesses here in physical form casting our divinity aside and declaring ourselves not good enough!!! Haha, it really is a cosmic joke! But it’s the TRUE pandemic….
And here's the thing - as two souls who are here in divine union, on a spiritual path, one of the BEST things about our relationship is that when we do take time to pause & reflect, we both really own our crap!!
This ‘divine responsibility’ then acts as a magical tuning fork to attract new divine solutions into our love container… Which is 100% what happened to us this past weekend.
So the steps! Well, if I was to break the process down we went through together, I would say this:
Create a safe space, environment & sufficient time to be available for the magic to happen
Let go of control & preconceived thoughts about how things SHOULD go
Be available to listen to your guidance & be willing to surrender to it
Own your shit, own your shit AND own your shit
Be willing to alchemise your shit
Ask for help (from your soul, the universe, God, each other, whoever!)
Express how you feel vulnerably, without blame, shame or criticism of the other person (this is what you call TRULY owning your shit) while allowing yourself to cry and emote as you need to
LISTEN for higher guidance and a new direction. From your partner, from deep inside of you, from your Soul, Spirit, a sign from the universe - guidance is all around YOU all of the time
Absorb, open your heart, feel the love, forgive each other, forgive yourself, integrate, take aligned action and ENJOY your new frequency of happiness.
Now, because Aeythen and I are both Blueprinters (meaning: we alchemise shit in our Blueprints), we also had a step 10 which involved shifting, recalibrating and RECODING both our individual blueprints AND our relationship blueprint too.
This has been our secret magical ingredient if you like - the one that we’ve used consistently to re-align ourselves with our highest destinies AND to bring fresh energy, joy, harmony and magic into our relationship too.
It’s something I’ve begun teaching, but far deeper levels are coming through this year as part of my upgrade which I am sharing now with Clients in different formats. My love programme is channelling in.
You see it’s all about upgrading the Blueprint. Aka your Operating System, your DNA, via your divine coding (the Creation Codes).
While this new love programme is being baked, I suggest in the mean-time that you check out my potent LOVE SPELL which is a high frequency manifestation process I channeled in order to rapidly shift your relationship to love.
It will work for you whether you already have a partner and want to take your love to the next level or if you want to attract a new soulmate to you. I have witnessed amazing shifts in my community after going through this process and the best thing is it’s only £33!
Click here to manifest higher forms of love in your life.
Being available to love has been one of the greatest challenges AND breakthroughs I’ve experienced in my life.
As I continue to surrender to love and more & more layers are made available to me, I experience a deepening of trust with myself, my higher guidance and within all of my relationships. I also can’t help but notice that more abundance shows up in my life too.
This alchemy of abundance is not really surprising as Creation CodeⓇ #4 is the same code for money, success and all forms of abundance, as it is also for Divine Love.
Remember that Quantum Success is available to you. You just have to be willing to open up, show up and receive.
Sending so much love your way,
Ariella xx
P.S. Curious about my new Quantum Success mastermind I’m hosting next year? Email support@ariellaindigo.com with a big YES if you would like to discover how to BE more, RECEIVE more, across ALL levels of your multidimensional existence in 2022 (and yes that includes your money and business too!), all from a place of love, abundance, guidance, alignment and flow.
ABOUT ARIELLA JUNO INDIGO:
I’m an Evolutionary Leader & Quantum Success Coach.
I knew from a very young age that I didn’t fit in and that this world was a very strange place to be!
I’m a rebel with a HUGE heart and no BS attitude!
I’m gifted with laser insight into people’s Souls and am intuitive AF, for real! 😜
My mission is about REBIRTHING all New Paradigm Leaders, Distruptors, New Humans, Purpose Driven Entrepreneurs into the HIGHEST version of themselves. By empowering them to gain access to Quantum Success on ALL levels, so they can make a huge impact in the world and shift humanities consciousness into the next evolution.
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